Last summer my neighbor would always hit on me, and I always denied him cuz he was constantly drinking and partying and hit on LITERALLY everyone at the pool lol.
He would usually say to give him a chance because he was raised by a single Mom and knew what that was like and wasn’t scared. I saw him at the bar the other night and he kept trying to get my number again, but I said no. I told him the same reasons and he brought up again how me having a kid didn’t bother him.
The next day I was thinking about it and decided… maybe I should give him a chance. Maybe I was just pushing him away because I was scared that he wasn’t scared of me being a single mom. He was actually available, which is the most terrifying thing to me lol. So I gave him my number and then he texted me and we set up a date.
After asking if he could see me before the date he didn’t reply to my answer for a few days. I didn’t think too much about it, people get busy and life can be crazy. But then this morning he texted me and was like I actually can’t take you out. I don’t want to lead you on blah blah blah.
At least he had the balls to tell me but why go through all that effort knowing it’s not something you want? Anyways, on to the next!